Premature ejaculation is a common sexual complaint and occurs when a man blows up soon during his sexual activity. The statistics may vary but it’s been seen that 1 out of 3 men may be victim of this problem at some time. If you are also one of those, who are looking for some tips to last longer in bed, you are on right place. A large number of men don’t even know how to control their ejaculation and as the consequences, the situation can be devastating. According to Dr. Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., sex researcher at Indiana University and author of ‘Great in Bed’, not only is it uncomfortable for an apparently healthy man, but no woman likes a three minute man. This is where, your good relationships are going to meet and end. And also there are many men, who seem to care only about getting their own “rocks” off and care little or even not for the woman’s satisfaction. Sooner or later, these guys are left alone, when the women leave them and find someone who lasts longer in the bed.
No doubt, women are as smart as you or I and they would never live with a bad ‘bed companion’. There are various methods to get rid of this critical problem, but completely in a natural way. I’m not discussing any kind of therapy here, although that might actually work. There are many tips that you can use to, step by step, lessen your stress in the bedroom until you are totally tension free. Now let’s take a look at some tips to fix the problem:
This is one of the best techniques adapted by men. The tip works but for some reason, it doesn’t prove to be effective as well on your own especially whilst doing masturbation. The technique is very simple and applies easily. You are supposed to withdraw your penis out of your partner, when you are about to blow up. Do it by yourself or ask your partner to squeeze it firmly with two fingers and a thumb on the head of your penis. Here you would feel that your arouse is subsiding and you may lose your arousal. But you can start getting arouse and resume your activity again.
Stop and Start
The intervals in between doing lots of hard thrusting may be somehow useful. Keep in mind that you don’t take yourself all the way to ejaculation. You must stop yourself way before having it done. You can use it as an excuse to change your position or “finger” your partner to give relaxes to your penis.
Desensitizing Drugs & Anesthetic Condoms
The idea behind desensitizing is to block some of the sensitivity of your penis by using drugs, during sexual activity. By blocking through some artificial mediums, you can comparatively last much longer. Things that work well are thicker condoms, delay condoms and delay sprays. The anesthetic condoms are a recent invention but have proved to be highly effective in the fight against premature ejaculation. There is a small amount of condoms anesthetic lubricant in the teat of the condom and when you roll it on, the lubricant gel becomes absorbed and starts to take effect within a few minutes. This technique would help you enjoy your love period for five more minutes.